In the years lockit and I have been together there have been many changes and a realisation that real life and kink can go hand in hand. The first thing I personally realised is that if you believe everything you read, you are in for a rude awakening. Not everything is about chastity or domination,… Read More A Realisation
It’s so much fun when you lock your slave when he is least expecting it. With so much having happened over the past few months the kinky fun has been a bit touch and go with very little touching and a whole lot of going. However, this week Lockit has a full week of very… Read More Lock, Unlock and Lock Again
It’s been a while since I got my kink on. Having sold my share in the dungeon I thought it only proper not to attend the club there for a while to give the new owner a chance to make their mark on the place. Originally there was no intention of going to club. Lockit… Read More Club Night After Months Away
Isn’t it strange with the ebb and flow of time how easily you can forget some things? I recently went back and read about the very first time I became Keyholder for lockit. Who is now my slave/partner/fiancée. He had not been locked for some time and it was still early on in my foray… Read More Time To Come Home and Enjoy Chastity Again
Now you are all prepared, time to start getting you ready. Time to find a marker, some sort of sharpie or permanent marker. If push comes to shove you can use a ballpoint pen. Use the pen to write above your penis “MJKH 2018” This will help you remember why you are locked and… Read More Next Stage of Hogmanay Lock Down
Welcome to Mistress Jules Hogmanay 2017 Lockdown. I hope you are ready to have some chastity fun and be locked in chastity and denial for the start of 2018. As from this moment you are denied permission to orgasm or touch yourself unless it part of the instructions for the lockdown. There will be no… Read More 2017 Hogmanay Lockdown Begins
What would a Mistress Like for Christmas? Whether your Mistress is your partner, online or a professional there are a few things that will always go down well at Christmas. Let me put a few things together for you that may help you out at this time of year. Toiletries – Always higher end than… Read More Christmas Gifts for a Mistress
In an earlier conversation with another Mistress it was remarked that a sub had a very big ego. That led us to thinking and eventually questioning, what is a sub? We came to the decision that it is a very personal perception and in a couple what one saw as being submissive another could see… Read More What Does Submissive Mean To You?
There I am in the chat room of a chastity forum talking to a few of the guys. One of whom sent me a link to a tumbler feed. I politely advised that I don’t look at pictures. There was a bit of discussion about the female being less visually stimulated and that it is… Read More Women Want Lovers Not Wankers
Do you like interacting with females on websites? Do you want to have a real conversation or are you just there to wank off? I am a member of a few kink/fetish orientated websites. I found it a great place to get to know people and find ideas for play. Over the last few years… Read More Where Are All The Gentlemen?