After 6 months of finding my feet I think it is time to take things to the next level. I will still be the same chatty irreverent Mistress Jules that will lock someone just because they happened into my chatroom on the right day lol. However for those who have been with me for a while I think it is time for things to change. I think it is time for them to become submissive to me in many more ways.
As there are now some who are staying with me long term then they need to have a different regime. They are no longer beginners or returners, as I am no longer a newbie. They have made the choice to stay so now we can work towards a more complete relationship.
It is all very well when first locking someone getting to know their limits and lifestyle as you work out a locking regime. However after a while, I no longer need their input into when it is necessary for freedom and/or release. I now have enough knowledge of what they do and their daily life to enable me to make the decisions. This will also remove the temptation for topping as they realise that no longer is their input required or necessary.
So far I have been a very lenient and gentle keyholder, taking time to try and get to know my chaste males and make it an enjoyable situation for both of us. This has sometimes made me a bit more lenient than was hoped for and a bit of a soft touch for excuses. I am happy with that, I feel it better to have erred on the side of caution as a new keyholder than to have pushed without knowing the possible consequences.
There are now however a few who have been with me for some time. It is time for them to feel the full extent of my control. Time for them to understand just exactly who is in charge and who holds the keys to their pleasure. Time for them to be taken to the next level.
They will no longer be my chaste male, they will be my submissive.