As a Mistress and now Dominatrix and Owner I like to think I know a bit about what each of the guys I have locked is looking for. Please note the wording there, it is very important “a bit” not everything, not most but “a bit”. I am a Mistress not a mind reader To… Read More The Mind Reading Mistress
I seem to remember what seems like forever ago saying that I didn’t want a submissive man, I already had kids, I certainly didn’t need any more responsibility. I wanted to be with someone who was their own person, who when they gave themselves to me, did it because they wanted to and trusted me… Read More My Thoughts On Responsibility
One of the biggest things I have noticed on my adventures into male chastity is the recurring question of how do I explain Male Chastity to my wife/partner. As I am sure I have mentioned more than once, as a female the answers given to that question have irked me no end. So a few… Read More How Do I Explain Male Chastity?
Over the last few months I have seen many pictures of many things as I explore the worlds of chastity and bdsm. Some have been pretty, some not so much, some funny and some should just not have bothered. It surprises me though on some sites, where guys are actively seeking a lady to be… Read More A Word About Pictures
I was pleasantly surprised when I joined this world of kink at the unwritten rules that everyone I have met seems to abide by. The simple yet ultimately most important rules that enable us all to enjoy this life of ours safe in the knowledge that it is pretty much self governing and we all… Read More Unwritten Rules
It has been a strange couple of weeks with many changes and opportunities presenting themselves. As I have learned more and more about this world I have entered I find myself increasingly drawn to the more dominant side of my personality and the opportunites that presents. Male Chastity and Keyholding will always be my first… Read More Changes and Opportunities
Well I have to say I was a tad disappointed in Lockdown Day. Only one very special gentleman took the plunge to experience real chastity. He is doing so well and I am very proud of him. We all know that it is not easy to take that step from fantasy to reality and when… Read More One Very Special Gentleman
It’s Lockdown Day at last. Here’s hoping the guys are as excited about it as I am. I should be receiving verification of lockdown by 9pm this evening. I shall be in chat to congratulate those who manage to take that step into true chastity. I can’t wait, it looks like being a good night.
It’s happened, I have turned into one of those females who needs more shoes. I don’t know what happened, I never used to bother about shoes before, then all of a sudden, pow! I have looked at more new shoes on the internet in the last two days than I have probably done in the… Read More New Shoes
It’s Wednesday, only two more days until Lockdown Day, I am getting so excited. My padlocks are on their way to the lucky recipients, keys are ready to follow, this is so much fun. I wonder how they will react when they click that padlock closed, knowing the key is not with them. No easy… Read More Looking Forward to Lockdown Day