BDSM

My Journey Into BDSM

BDSM is a large part of my life now and a relatively public part of my life. From very small beginnings as a keyholder for chaste males, I ended up on a roller coaster of a journey and I am loving it.

Although I loved reading BDSM erotica, it just didn’t have the right feel to it. As the majority of that genre has the main female as submissive then it’s not really surprising. Then when I learned about male chastity and dominant females, I decided to jump in with both feet and enjoy myself.

First I joined my local Fetlife group, still some of my greatest friends in the fetish community. Through them I was introduced to my closest Fetish club, run in a professional dungeon. So now I was attending munches in a vanilla environment with my local group, then going to a fetish club about once a month.

It was at the club that I met a lovely lady who it turns out was one of the pro dommes from the premises the club was held in. We chatted for a while and she advised me that I should not be doing all this keyholding for free, especially when I took it so seriously.

It was about this time I met my now personal slave/submissive/lover/partner who unfortunately lives at the other end of the country. He was the first I ever flogged publicly and he was the one who encouraged my enthusiasm for all things hitty. Having been introduced to the physicality of BDSM in a very small way, I knew that this was something I wanted more of and was not about to be giving away for free.

Cue the wishlist on Amazon and the items on my site in the store. I was already blogging by then about the adventures of my chaste males for whom I controled release. I gradually started to attend the club more and eventually asked about the day to day activities of the dungeon.

I went to visit during the day and chatted to the ladies who were there on a regular basis. This sounded like so much fun, I just had to try. So I started to book sessions in the dungeon. There were not many, there still aren’t many as I am only there on Saturdays at present. However it is such a fun way to spend my Saturdays.

Not so long ago, it came to pass that there was an opportunity to buy the dungeon. I couldn’t afford it in my own right so myself and another 2 managed to get the money together. Now I am a very proud co owner of that dungeon and we are ringing the changes in the best possible way. It shall take some time but eventually the dungeon shall be THE place to go for the best BDSM experience.

I have noticed my blog has lost some of it’s very recently as I try to be more professional and sensible. I have also decided that I am much better just posting as me. So be prepared for some more stories from the life of Mistress Jules. I do so hope you will join me as I keep you updated on who is locking and who is not, who is brave enough to feel the lash and who runs away. I look forward to seeing your comments, let me know what you think.

(This is the clean version – more detailed version to follow)

MJ

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