Mistress Jules Musings, Serving Your Mistress

A Realisation

In the years lockit and I have been together there have been many changes and a realisation that real life and kink can go hand in hand.

The first thing I personally realised is that if you believe everything you read, you are in for a rude awakening. Not everything is about chastity or domination, real life is a delicate balance and one of the most important things is knowing when kink goes out the window.

We all have those moments when life takes over and sometimes it can be a struggle to get back into the groove. Sometimes it’s not even those moments, sometimes it is just daily life. After a day at work, checking on elderly parents and teenage children the last thing a woman wants to do is get dressed up to fulfil some sexual fantasy for her man. Most of the time they would rather catch up with the washing, cooking etc and try and find some time for themselves to relax. 

That is why chastity is such a perfect kink. Lock him up and he will be fulfilling his own sexual fantasy with very little input. Then when you crave a bit of loving attention, he is there ready to do your bidding. You get your own prince charming, which really is what most women crave. Someone who adores them and helps them. 

There are times when one has to be careful with chastity. Obviously, you cannot lock someone up for weeks when they first wear a device. Let’s also be sensible about activities and of course the hot weather. Chafing is not good for anyone and should be avoided at all costs. Lube is of course good but common sense is also a factor. 

Once you have both realised these basics, then the chastity world is your oyster. Out and about with him locked can be so much fun, especially if meeting family and friends or shopping for lingerie. Even watching tv on the couch can be fun if you have your feet up nestling in a place which lets you fondle the device as you wiggle your toes. The small details are the ones that will make a big difference in his chastity experience. Not forgetting the thrill as you watch his tortured features as he realises there is nothing he can do about it. 

So for the gentlemen reading this, enjoy your chastity and remember that you will receive a better reaction from your partner being prince charming than you will treating her as a means for you to get your kink on.

1 thought on “A Realisation

  1. I’m a 52 year old man trying to get into the chaste life with my wife. My first attempt was at the beginning of the summer and I failed miserably. After reading your books on chastity I have seen some of the errors that I made. Although I didn’t say the wrong things described in your book I really didn’t say the right things either. Needless to say I have done a lot of research since then and found your books to really be helpful. Round two will be in a couple of weeks and I’m hoping we can slowly work our way into the lifestyle. Thanks and I’ll keep you updated on my progress.

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