In the years lockit and I have been together there have been many changes and a realisation that real life and kink can go hand in hand. The first thing I personally realised is that if you believe everything you read, you are in for a rude awakening. Not everything is about chastity or domination,… Read More A Realisation
Isn’t it strange with the ebb and flow of time how easily you can forget some things? I recently went back and read about the very first time I became Keyholder for lockit. Who is now my slave/partner/fiancée. He had not been locked for some time and it was still early on in my foray… Read More Time To Come Home and Enjoy Chastity Again
What would a Mistress Like for Christmas? Whether your Mistress is your partner, online or a professional there are a few things that will always go down well at Christmas. Let me put a few things together for you that may help you out at this time of year. Toiletries – Always higher end than… Read More Christmas Gifts for a Mistress
In an earlier conversation with another Mistress it was remarked that a sub had a very big ego. That led us to thinking and eventually questioning, what is a sub? We came to the decision that it is a very personal perception and in a couple what one saw as being submissive another could see… Read More What Does Submissive Mean To You?
There I am in the chat room of a chastity forum talking to a few of the guys. One of whom sent me a link to a tumbler feed. I politely advised that I don’t look at pictures. There was a bit of discussion about the female being less visually stimulated and that it is… Read More Women Want Lovers Not Wankers
Do you like interacting with females on websites? Do you want to have a real conversation or are you just there to wank off? I am a member of a few kink/fetish orientated websites. I found it a great place to get to know people and find ideas for play. Over the last few years… Read More Where Are All The Gentlemen?
These are just the sweetest things. How to relieve your sexual tension with your own set of boobs you can caress and squeeze without bothering your Mistress. <br /><br />
It’s just past my 4th year of realising I am a dominant female and finding out about the joys of male chastity. I joined Chastity Mansion at the end of October 2013, no idea what I was doing but looking to learn and learn fast. Thanks to help from a number of people, I found… Read More Four Years On
There seems to be a body of thought in the male chastity world that searches for ways to improve mens staying power. Don’t get me wrong I am all for a long luxurious love making sessions unfortunately, reading some posts it seems some guys want to be jackhammers. (pretty much older posts I have to… Read More Don’t Be A Jackhammer
It’s very strange sometimes as a keyholder when you stop to think. When you think of those men with their dicks in a cage. Some say it’s all to please me, I think we all know it’s not. It’s a sexual fetish for men in the most part. A fantasy of a domineering woman taking… Read More I Smile A Little Smile